Hi Friends
It’s really been a long while that I have updated this Blog. Looking on the positive side, I have really been busy with work and launching new programmes. Recently, have just shifted to a new cosy office and I am quite excited about decorating it to be my dream office.
During my recent Swish 13 batch, one of our graduate shared a video about this young woman by the name of Jessica Cox. Listened to this, she flies an airplane, she is a black-belt Tae Kwon Do, she drives a car and ……………. she has NO HANDS! YES! NO HANDS!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bIx8jvo3BcU
Let me ask you this question – does this lady believe that she can fly a plane without hands? Does this lady believe she can drive a car without hands? Does this lady believe in herself that she can change the lives of others?
So do you believe in yourself? So do you believe that you can do anything?
Cheers!
Cayden Chang
Founder & Director
BSc(Hons), MSc
Lifelong Learner Award 2008 Honouree
Licensed NLP Trainer
http://www.nlpinsingapore.com
http://www.mindkinesis.com
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Saturday, April 17, 2010
Thursday, December 17, 2009
HOW HUNGRY ARE YOU IN GETTING THE THINGS THAT YOU WANT?
Hi Friends
Whenever I run my workshops, most of them would kindly shared that their current top concern is money, career or business. Some would specifically said that they want to be financially free. I would then followed up with another question: "Are you able to able to increase your income by $200 per month for the next 12 months?". Majority of them would have doubts saying that they would have problems and so on and so on........ Why would so many of them still struggle with a challenge of just increasing their income by $200 per month when some of them are even Diploma holders and Degree Holders? One key reason: they ask the wrong question. Whenever they are given a challenge, the question that pops up first is "Can or Cannot?" or "Why cannot?". So what happen next? There is a 50% chance that they will find reasons to say why they can't do it or even more. Worse still, they would spend most of their time finding reasons why it can't be done.
One way to help them to get the amount that they way is simply to ask the question "How?". I repeat, simply ask "How?" and nothing else.
Let me share some simple things one can do just to make that extra $200:
1) My part-time helper will come to my house to do cleaning every Sunday. For every hour, she makes $10. She works 5 hours and that will give her $50. She comes 4 times a week and she makes $200/month
2) Give tuition. This is particularly useful for people who are Diploma or Degree Holders. 1 student will easily fetch you more than $200
3) Do some work with higher value ranging from selling toys to insurance to houses, etc. Anything can be sold.
4) The list to generate $200/month goes on and on .........
As such, the problem does not lie with the lack of ideas. The problem lies with the fact that person is NOT hungry enough. When you are at the verge of hunger, you will do anything....do anything to fill that hunger.
Let me share with you a video that was shared by one of our Coaches. Watch it, give it some thought and ask yourself this question: "How hungry are you in getting the things that you want!" I frequently asked myself this question to drive me.
Watch it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y28VE032F40&feature=related
Cayden Chang
http://www.nlpinsingapore.com/
http://www.mindkinesis.com/
http://www.the-100-best.com/
Whenever I run my workshops, most of them would kindly shared that their current top concern is money, career or business. Some would specifically said that they want to be financially free. I would then followed up with another question: "Are you able to able to increase your income by $200 per month for the next 12 months?". Majority of them would have doubts saying that they would have problems and so on and so on........ Why would so many of them still struggle with a challenge of just increasing their income by $200 per month when some of them are even Diploma holders and Degree Holders? One key reason: they ask the wrong question. Whenever they are given a challenge, the question that pops up first is "Can or Cannot?" or "Why cannot?". So what happen next? There is a 50% chance that they will find reasons to say why they can't do it or even more. Worse still, they would spend most of their time finding reasons why it can't be done.
One way to help them to get the amount that they way is simply to ask the question "How?". I repeat, simply ask "How?" and nothing else.
Let me share some simple things one can do just to make that extra $200:
1) My part-time helper will come to my house to do cleaning every Sunday. For every hour, she makes $10. She works 5 hours and that will give her $50. She comes 4 times a week and she makes $200/month
2) Give tuition. This is particularly useful for people who are Diploma or Degree Holders. 1 student will easily fetch you more than $200
3) Do some work with higher value ranging from selling toys to insurance to houses, etc. Anything can be sold.
4) The list to generate $200/month goes on and on .........
As such, the problem does not lie with the lack of ideas. The problem lies with the fact that person is NOT hungry enough. When you are at the verge of hunger, you will do anything....do anything to fill that hunger.
Let me share with you a video that was shared by one of our Coaches. Watch it, give it some thought and ask yourself this question: "How hungry are you in getting the things that you want!" I frequently asked myself this question to drive me.
Watch it here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Y28VE032F40&feature=related
Cayden Chang
http://www.nlpinsingapore.com/
http://www.mindkinesis.com/
http://www.the-100-best.com/
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